To err is human and to forgive divine, according to the old adage, but humans who forgive are known to experience significant physical and mental health benefits from doing so.

Now researchers report that these beneficial health effects appear to vary by age, along with the willingness to forgive others, the willingness to forgive oneself.

俗话说"人孰能无过,宽恕为上",最近一项试验表明宽恕别人还能够有效促进人们自身的身心健康。研究者发现,不同年龄的人对人对己的宽容程度都不同,不同程度的宽容之心对健康的影响也不同。
There are age differences in some forms of forgiveness and in their relationship to health.''

不同年龄段的人宽容之心是不一样的,其对健康的影响程度也有所不同。

Among survey participants of all ages, however, reports of forgiveness of themselves and others were associated with decreased psychological distress, including feelings of restlessness, hopelessness and nervousness.

各个年龄段的被调查者在对他人和对自己宽容以待的时候,往往会减轻自己的心理压力,例如减少自己烦躁、绝望和紧张等情绪。

In other findings, attendance at religious services was associated with decreased psychological distress, particularly among young and middle-aged adults, and increased life satisfaction among young and old adults. Service attendance was also associated with higher self-rated health among all age groups.

这项研究还发现,中青年人参加宗教祈祷仪式,感受自己被上帝宽恕,减轻了他们的心理压力,而年轻人和老年人参加宗教祈祷仪式,则提高了他们对生活的满意度。所有被调查者在参加了宗教祈祷仪式后都对自己的健康状况感觉良好。
Give more love or get more love from others?




有人说,爱是无私的,应该爱对方多一点;可是又有人说,自己都不爱,如何爱别人?每个人的爱情理念不同,因而会产生不同的爱情誓言。无论如何,你爱自己多一点,还是爱对方多一点呢?

观点A:选择爱自己多一点懂得爱自己才会有资格去爱别人。多爱对方一点,到最后自己受伤也就多一点。但感情是不能控制的,在不知不觉中爱对方比爱自己更多。观点B:对方幸福,自己才会幸福我觉得还是爱对方多一点好!只有爱对方,让对方幸福快乐,自己才能幸福快乐,为此付出再多也是值得的!

观点C:爱情需要把握好一个“度”我觉得无论爱别人多一点还是爱自己多一点,最重要的是把握好一个“度”,爱情面前既不能爱得失去理智也不能丧失自己,只有两个人在爱自己的同时不忽略爱别人才是最平衡的相处方式。


Hope is what keeps life going. Parents always hope their children will do well.
Hope makes us dream. Hope builds in patience.
Life teaches us not to despair even in the darkest hour, because after every night
there is a day. Nothing remains the same we have only one choice keep moving on
in life and be hopeful.
Life teaches us not to regret over yesterday, for it has passed and is beyond our control. Tomorrow is unknown, for it could either be bright or dull.
So the only alternative is work hard today, so that we will enjoy a better tomorrow.

希望与绝望

希望是人生动力之源。父母总是希望自己的孩子能够做得很好。
希望使我们有梦想。希望使我们变得有耐心。
人生教会我们即使是在最困难的时候都不要绝望,因为黑暗之后终将是黎明。
没有什么事一成不变的,我们惟有充满希望地继续生活。
人生教会我们不要对过去的事感到后悔,因为过去的终究是过去了并且我们已无法控制。没人知道明天会是怎样,因为它可以是光明的同样也可以是无趣的。
Joy in living comes from having fine emotions, trusting them, giving them the freedom of a bird in the open. Joy in living can never be assumed as a pose, or put on from the outside as a mask. People who have this joy don not need to talk about it; they radiate it. They just live out their joy and let it splash its sunlight and glow into other lives as naturally as bird sings.

We can never get it by working for it directly. It comes, like happiness, to those who are aiming at something higher. It is a byproduct of great, simple living. The joy of living comes from what we put into living, not from what we seek to get from it.

  生活之乐趣来源于良好的情绪,信赖这些情绪,并任由它们如同鸟儿高翔于天空般地自由自在。生活的乐趣是无法靠姿态摆出来的,也无法用戴上一张面具来伪装。 拥有这种乐趣的人们无需挂在嘴边,他们自然会焕发出快乐的气息。他们自己生活在快乐当中,也将这样的快乐自然而然地感染着他人,犹如是鸟儿就必将歌唱。

  直接追求生活的乐趣却只会使乐趣远离我们,它与幸福一样青睐胸有大志的人们。生活过得高雅、简单便会产生出乐趣。它是我们对生活的投入,而非所求。



I sit here quietly and watch the sun set,

Thinking of someone that I've never met.

I wonder: does he think of me too?

Needless to say I am thinking of you.

Wanting to hold you, to see you face,

And you take me away to a better place.

You feel so right, too good to be true,

I just can't stop thinking of you.

My friends say that I might regret

Losing my heart to a guy I've not met.

I say there is nothing I can do,

I cannot help thinking of you.
I believe you were made special for me,

But wonder if that could possibly be?

I'm tired of being so alone and blue,

But I always smile when thinking of you.



我静静地坐在这里,看着夕阳西落,
思念着一个我从未谋面的人。
我问自己:他也想我吗?
无可置疑地我正在想着你。

想要拥抱你,看着你的脸庞,

想要你带我去到一个更美妙的地方。

你的完美,你的好,几乎不真实,

我就是无法停止去想你。

朋友们说我会后悔,

把我的心交给一个未曾见过面的人。

我说我也无能为力,

我就是禁不住要去想你。

相信你专为我而生,

但又怀疑这是否可能?

我已厌倦孤独与忧郁,

但每当想着你,我总会微笑。
Thinking of You 思念着你;

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